Sunday, August 07, 2005

Ek_Ajnabi_Ki_Soch

I found this write up by coincidence.Don't know who the author is or when it was written,but no doubt everyword penned down has come from the heart......

JOKER BALI
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Today i saw choker bali.What a movie!!!!My husband says there is no jist in the movie.I did not want to argue with him but a kind of old age dwelling is the feeling after the movie.I feel like dressing like that,decorating like that in that age.How nice my children would be in a previlaged home life with the kind of identity.Now no precreated identities.You should create your own identities.You should create your own destiny.Competation "more" oppurtunities "less".I seldom see people wearing sarees in a kind of grace that women had those days."The beauty of saree".
Now saree is worn as another kind of traditional attire.No centiments attached
 and no feelings whatsoever are tagged.Decoration is only make up and fashion.I love to be in that traditional atmosphere... authentic decorations,colour in your hands and feet,genuine love in your eyes sparkling smile.The smile which just bolssoms as a rose and brings immense beauty to the whole atmosphere.

How beautiful was our ancestors life.Women were trated as Goddesses,pride of the house.Decorated,blissful,full of passion,affection.They were passion personified.Looked after like idols of love.Times changed.....After that came an age when men took advantage of the situation and became supreme power.They ruled the household.Now times are again changing.IN the name of liberty they are given multiple chores,multiple responsibilities and multiple roles.The ones who are denied of jobs are given multiple apprehensions by all modes of life.Studies,scores,knowledge,liberty is on one side,feelings,love,children,responsibilities on other.Only one side of the coin shows at a time.Bith sides cannot be achieved at a time.So the struggle starts.If you stay at home,all your dreams of becoming self reliant are locked and if you are working all your responsibities towards husnband,children,motherhood,womenhood are neglected...TRUAMA NEVER ENDS.......

1 comment:

PainfullyYours said...

hmm....i havent watched this movie...just searched through though...what the lady(presumption)is so totally true..the choices of career and home is great...and..the analogy with that of a coin as well..nice one!

 
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